The power of the positive support on the negative shadow …….

Thank you for reading my previous article “living in the truth of now …… ..”. I thank you for the open interest and for open comments. Today I give attention to the power of positive support to the negative shades of comments and accusations we’ve ever gotten once and dirt-guard sometimes above seem to be in a difficult situation if we have chosen for it. The truth is different.

We know that nobody chooses a negative outcome. We can assume that each of us wants to realize his or her life. It may be necessary for us to dwell on the negative shadows (voices in our heads or other obstacles) and then we discover that we have ignored some unwelcome feelings. That cover sucks energy and strength. We can regain our strength and freedom clear by dwelling on our negative perception and begin to see clearly what happened in that unique and beautiful spirit, soul and body of us.

When we are aware of what is blocking, which are obstacles, leading to immobility, or how it happened if we occasionally erupt in sensitive situations emotions, then there will be another open door. Understanding yourself with support and positive support from others and come back to his pure awareness and that is the key to a clear view of how we are so caught up in certain ways of responding. Us understand itself opens the door to “conscious” and then we can go to feel liberated, old patterns allow for what was needed in that particular situation and choose a new path of life.

If we look at everyday life for ways to break free from the routine, habits or always the same pattern in contact or relationship, where innovation so far seemed impossible, stand with others thought to what really happens in a situation. Discover how we can be in our lives again inspirational entrepreneur.

Every experienced negative feeling in life or in comparison, the germ of spiritual growth and renewal in him.

In everyday life we ​​sometimes observe “Manifestations of loneliness.” Together in meetings with other people, and yet each lives in his own little island with smartphone or activity. We can open the gate to be present in the here and now, to involvement in open interest, to share feeling, experiences and others see the reality now. Is able to give expression to the situation now …………. inner beauty becomes visible.

We can be aware of negative thoughts that arise. The echo of the criticisms we have received from certain people in our environment. Then stand still in effect and find our own answers to the event with the support of the healing power of the group. A guide on our path to become our own therapist and convert retreat into a meeting, in truly felt contact.

Last week in the news: Healing through awareness is what happens in a relationship. Child with eczema cures when parents go into couples therapy.

Personal note: I notice that when I’m with understanding dwell on what I do can see clearly now in a situation which choice or automatic reaction I’ve used that I am aware and recognize the pattern. The recognition of acceptance and understanding ensures that I feel free from the pattern, without me doing anything. The pattern may have as a reminder of the past and now I live in a new way.

Beauty, purity, growth and flowering. The everyday life as a journey of discovery for more spiritual fulfillment in the present. Is us is giving a second chance to enjoy some life. Better now than wait until tomorrow. Put that first step and give yourself the chance to experience it is like working with dialogue without judgment and you feel the freedom to be who you are in essence. In truth can see what we do heal old wounds.

On May 1, 2016 I will hold an open day in Treignat, France. Register ahead of time if you want to participate.

I invite you for the inspiring gestalt workshops in Thailand or France. Sign up for information about program enrollment and specifying the qualities you want to develop more in daily life. We have “awareness” and that is not tied to a certain stage in your life.

Gestaltweek in Auvergne te France from 25-06-2016 to 02-07-2016. Sign up for May 2, 2016.

Gestaltweek in Khao Kalok te Thailand from 23 to 30 July 2016. Register before June 1, 2016.

Activities and training for people who want to develop their potential to light contact in the situation and the potential for a nourishing dialogue with the other. To discover the wisdom hidden behind the daily response patterns. You’re all ok and you have to explore the possibility of how it is that you do not feel it sometimes. And then…. You can be the architect of your life. at the helm ……… ..

I work with movement, use of language, meditation, dialogue with the parts of the self or give another expression of feeling, exploring, healing music and rock music, touring identifications, awareness, recognition and transfer of living patterns in the picture and what to spot is sought

Play your music. take along for the evenings your instrument.

Connected and I look forward to meeting you on your path towards the light and discover your opportunities in daily life,

Dream Baby Dream by Bruce Springsteen


Evert van der Weide


Comments are welcome.


N.B. I gestalt, gestalttrainer, social worker, social worker with advanced training: group work and supervision powers. I support people since 1980 in my own practice in back-sequentially Hague until 2007, Pak Nam Pran, Thailand t / m in 2009 and then in France Treignat and Khao Kalok (including Hua Hin), Thailand during training there.

If you want to know more about me as a person. See: As already 36 years I have been working with the Gestalt approach of life.


Clear awareness develop blockages or healing old wounds, depression. You can be in any situation is possible for everyone. Come together with others to practice and explore. Eureka …… .. I am. See you in solidarity.


See the book “Know Your Self” Perls, Goodman and Hefferline. Ed. Bert Bakker


“It’s surprising how many persons go through life without ever Recognizing That Their feelings toward other people are Largely Determined by Their feelings toward them selves, and if you’re not comfortable within yourself, you can not be comfortable with others.” Sydney J. Harris


Telephone or text message: +33 (0) 6 27 78 62 52 or email In Skype: evertvanderweide and Line: Evert or in facebook: Evert van der Weide

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