Restoration of deeper contact in relationship possible?
Do you feel fully connection with your partner is lost?
There are simple ways to transform not only your relationship but also the world as you know.
But now, first, a personal experience in a meeting with friends. A woman is very keen to talk to me about the blessings of healthy eating without meat etc. I feel that I feel as if I had to see reality in the same way and I dodge that by saying “I’m not busy” . I explain how you could see it and avoid contact with what I really experience. Because: I can also say directly: “I get the feeling that you want to convince me of eating healthy and especially that I have to resist.” “I feel double because I like talking to you with such energy and I’m not currently interested in talking about healthy eating.” “I’d rather hear why this is for you as a person so important to eat healthy, because then I hear you and I do not know anything in freedom”. “And that’s my interest”
Recognizable? Let’s hear by respons to my email.
Now back to the moment you only got to know your partner and felt the feelings of openness and love. There you can go back if you want. Feel safe, appreciated and connected in your relationship.
- This can be done by conducting practical conversations and focusing on how that feels.
- By exploring negativity experiences in the relationship and eliminating them by new insights, e.g. Convert to the contrary.
- Share and clarify daily thoughts. To float like clouds.
- Converting your frustration feelings about what does not happen change in requests
- Give loving attention to your relationship
In the training attention for how to develop the socio-emotional ability to make direct contact with a deeper level.
And then you get out of training again in the outside world and then it is necessary to keep in touch with your own perception in here and now. Do not let yourself be in what others think, do or judge. Love to follow, name and test your own perception with people who really listen to you and feel that it’s beating with your “self”.
In the gestalt weekend you can take steps to “restore contact with your real self, with the real others.” Develop and manage your own skills that are latent. Being able to practice recognizing “think and do” patterns and your pure w a r m e n occasionally have the choice to do differently. That’s the most evolving in daily life? Request information, email or ask for a free skype video call.
Gestalt-week 12-19 August 2017 in France.
Each of us has a deeper understanding already. Due to the daily pressure and the effect of life events, you will not be able to attend. Training serves to focus and discover who you are in essence: the road to human entrepreneur is in your existence. This brings you wisdom, strength, leadership. You learn speechless communication and conflict management. So you can take full advantage of your lifestyles, in your relationship, in your work and in daily contacts. The gestalt training can also be done individually, by means of a conversation conversation or in the afternoon group, weekend or intensive weight training.
Sign up for this unique and inspiring Gestalt weekend scheduled 29-30 September 2017 France. Send email to: firstname.lastname@example.org before 1 August 2017.
I’m Evert van der Weide, now 72 years old, I live in France, now I have 35 years of experience as a Gestalt therapist; See Linked. I work with individual, relationship, supervision and I work with specific form-weekend / gestaltweek trainings in the Netherlands, France and Thailand.
My inspirators are Fritz and Laura Perls, Gendlin, Pierro Ferrucci, Assaggioli, Anthony Robbins, Carl Rogers, Walter Kempler (Relationship Therapy) and Alexander Lowen. I am passionate about the possibilities for personal growth for each of us in the “current moment now” in this life.
Request info, provide preferred data by email email@example.com with name, address and phone. After that you will receive a registration form and you will receive directions 14 days in advance.
The form weekend starts on Friday afternoon at 14:00 and ends on Saturday evening at 20:00.
The Friday evening program will take place until 22:00. The cost for this weekend is € 200.00 including simple breakfast, lunch, meal, coffee / fresh and overnight in a bedroom. To meet the start of the weekend.
For inspiration: Beth Hart’s “Good day to cry”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X4foeORboyM