I am I and you are you. Appreciation of our difference.
Do you also recognize that we come in our contacts in repetition patterns of responding to each other. That you would like to escape from this way of reacting to each other and gaining clear insight into how to do that differently. Take it back in your own hands to restore the connection and love.
I have taken the whole dimension into the feelings and constraints we encountered in contact, relationship or work, and I have taken the opportunity to work on clear insights, inputs and changes. I came back home in myself and I have discovered how important it is to teach attention to not knowing what you feel, feeling feelings and giving a clear place in the living situation. And then discover how to give hands and feet to what lives in me, so that the other understands me and understands me better. Be able to express more direct and clearer situations of perpetual perception through pure perception, independent of the flow of thinking and raised education or education indoctrination programs.
Practice and discover in a natural relaxing environment where life is not rushed. Find space and time to keep quiet with who you are and discover new facets about yourself and observe your partner in nature around Treignat.
Responding to the auto-responding. With loving attention and respect for your loving self, the possibilities create you at a different level of language. Heart contact repair. In the free dialogue you can explore feelings without judging and finding words that give you self-expression. And then you realize that you are completely in whom you are in contact with the other. Your beauty, your purity can express and open to the other. Flow of love energy.
Now back to the moment you only got to know your partner and felt the feelings of openness and love. There you can go back if you want. Feel safe, appreciated and connected in your relationship.
- This can be done by conducting practical conversations and focusing on how that feels.
- By exploring negativity experiences in the relationship and eliminating them by new insights, e.g. convert to the contrary.
- Share and clarify daily thoughts. To float past clouds.
- Transforming your frustration feelings about what does not happen change expression into desires.
- Give loving attention in the relationship through awareness.
- Exercise to be present in self-awareness and share without criticism or judgment.
- Listen to the words and what you hear in the sound behind the words.
- Use the relationship to change thinking and more joy of life.
In these relationship training sessions you can make new discoveries “on the road to a loving relationship and the real other” using gestalt principles. The own skills, which may have been lost in contact with education and education programs, will restore contact. When we can practice recognizing “think and do” patterns, “language patterns” and “pure w a r m e n in it now” and if you take lovingly, you get the conscious choice to practice differently. To make the relationship nutritious. And then the relaxation becomes felt.
Each of us already has that deeper insight. Due to the daily pressures and the effects of life events, you often do not attend. Training serves to focus and discover who you are in essence: the road to human entrepreneur is in your existence. This brings you wisdom, strength, leadership. You learn speechless communication and conflict management. So you can take full advantage of your lifestyles, in your relationship, in your work and in daily contacts. The gestalt training can also be done individually, by means of a relationship conversation or in the afternoon group, weekend or intensive weight training.
I’m Evert van der Weide, now 72 years old, I live in France, now I have 35 years of experience as a Gestalt therapist; See Linked. I work with individual, relationship, supervision and I work with specific form-weekend / gestaltweek trainings in the Netherlands, France and Thailand. I work again with Margreet Verweij in the Netherlands.
For info and data you can email me firstname.lastname@example.org with name, address and phone. Then you will receive info or a registration form and you will receive directions 14 days in advance.
For inspiration: “Make you feel my love” from Adele:
Gestalt-autumnweekend “loving contact” 27-28 October 2017
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This photo on the background from the area Treignat, France.