Awareness in your relationship
Do you feel disappointed in aspects of your relationship and would you like to discover how you can take steps now to bring your relationship to flowering again? You already have the tools within you and can discover them. Do you focus on where you are and what you are doing? Are you concerned with how you want the other to be? That leads to a dead end.
I propose that you now focus on what you are aware of within yourself. Your rich inner self.
If you want your wife to be fully alive – if you want her core, her passion, her energy.
Then the first thing to understand is her basic needs. When you meet those needs, you help her step into her true self.
Her beautiful, feminine energy will shine like never before! She will open up to you, she
will bring you in, and you will create an openness, connection and a deeper level of intimacy than you ever thought possible.
1. Understand her feelings
2. Validate her feelings
3. Don’t try to resolve the feelings, just focus on listening.
Confirm her and start to feel what is present in recognition and acceptance that it is good. It made sense to survive. And now Eureka. I see what I do in acceptance then something changes without having to do anything else. Hidden feelings need space and attention and not to be thrown to death with rational solutions.
If you want to create polarity in your relationship, if you want that intense attraction with your man, then you have to let him step into his masculine core. And in order to do this, the first thing to understand is its basic needs. Because if you fulfill those needs, you’ll unleash his masculine energy – and that’s a force of nature. A man who is connected to his masculine core knows who he is, what he wants and where he is going. And when that energy meets its feminine counterpart, passion and intimacy is present. Use your relationship for sharing experiences to experience more joy instead of getting bogged down in thinking.
1. Appreciate what he brings to the table. Sincerely praise him.
2. See his qualities in relation to others
3. Celebrate small successes
The training focuses on how you can develop the social-emotional capacities to make more direct contact on a deeper level.
Start using the language of the heart. Using direct and clear language to express what you feel on a deeper level and that is not speaking thinking.
Ask for information about relationship sessions or the subsequent relationship training in blocks of a few days spread over the year and with a certificate of participation at the end.
In this relationship week with the help of Gestalt principles you can make new discoveries “on the way to a loving relationship and really meet the other”. Restore contact with one’s own skills that may have been lost through parenting and education programs. When we can practice recognizing “think and do patterns,“ language patterns ”and“ pure w a r e m e n in the now ”and when you observe lovingly, you can make the conscious choice to do differently. Nourishing the relationship. Using the language differently. You can relax and unwind from the automatic response patterns.
Each of us already has that deeper insight with us. Due to the daily pressure and the effect of life events, you often do not get to that. Training serves to focus and discover who you are in essence: the path to being a human entrepreneur in your existence. This brings you wisdom, strength, leadership. You discover how to communicate without judgment and how to manage conflict. So that you can fully utilize your zest for life, in your relationship, in your work and in daily contacts. The Gestalt training can also be done individually, through a relationship conversation or in an afternoon group, weekend or intensive weekly training.
My name is Evert van der Weide, I now live in France, I now have 41 years of experience as a Gestalt therapist; see Linked. I work with individual, relationship conversations, supervision and I work with specific Gestalt weekend / Gestalt week training courses in the Netherlands, France and Thailand.
For info and dates you can e-mail me firstname.lastname@example.org with name, address and telephone. You will then receive information or a registration form and you will receive directions 14 days in advance.
For inspiration: “You are so beautiful” by Joe Cocker: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xsOSt3hNRY0&ab_channel=jajerzy
http://www.degeleroos.nl/Gestaltweek_Frankrijk.htm folder in preparation
Gestalt week “loving relationship” 24-31 August 2021 in France
Register before 1 May 2021
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